I'm Tonia. I help other elder millenial women stand in their confidence and realize their powerful energy to live their most authentic life. 

I am also an author, wine coach, educator and online wine club host.

I am obsessed with my daughters, smut TV, sushi, pink lipstick, wine and food pairings, folk music and being near the water. 

I hate cilantro, cold winters, needles, cooked apples, small-talk, and lavender. 

For years, I have been learning to protect my peace in what has always been a chaotic life. Ironically the diagnosis of a severe autoimmune disease put everything into perspective for me and I began to scale back, not that I had much of a choice. Looking at my life I knew it was necessary to purge. Abundance isn't always positive - I was hoarding shit I did not need, physically and emotionally! Thus my journey to a QUALITY life began. 

Now, I outwardly share this transformation through authentic conversations as a newly 40-something woman, as the co-host of this powerful podcast with none other than my best friend who doubles as my sister-in-law and auntie to my babies. 

I'm Vanessa. I'm a vibrant, energetic, quirky and at most times a clumsy woman who is proud of the person I've become. I spend each day finding the next woman who needs to be reminded of her power and beauty in all of her unique traits.

I'm an obsessively organized administrator who lives and breathes spreadsheets so obviously i'm the funnest woman to work with 😉 I can organize your LIFE!

I spent most of my life in the shadows and staying quiet in every room until one by one the most supportive women made their way into my life at all the right times to show me who I could be. I am forever grateful for my sisterhood and what they continue to teach me and wouldn't have known and valued all the quality that was to come in my life without them.

I love my structure and balance to make sure I only fill my time with the best quality people and experiences! From my workouts, to meal prepping, to reading in my sauna, every date night with my girlfriends, adventures with my husband and my wild frenchies: these are what fuel me and keep me in my element.